Sunday, 29 July 2018

What’s the difference between listening and really listening?


One of my earlier cello teachers would constantly say ‘You have to REALLY listen!’ (I use uppercase because she emphasized that word)1. I’ve spent the rest of my life hearing that phrase in my head and repeating it. I’ve always remembered it despite not fully appreciating what it meant at the time. I thought: I am listening! What more can I do? What’s the difference between listening and really listening? Over the years I’ve come to realise two things. One, there are many ways of listening as a musician, many of which we take for granted. Two, there’s also different levels of intensity and concentration involved when listening to yourself and others.  

I started learning the violin and cello within group classes (3 & 5/6yrs of age respectively). It was fun playing with them as a group. This starts a child on the road to really listening which is of great value in itself and probably the best way to start learning an instrument rather than having individual lessons. In addition, I attended classes at a well-known theatre school from a very early age. So I had already learnt to listen, co-ordinate and co-operate with others whether it be playing classical instruments, singing, dancing, acting, musical theatre or working as a large group when putting on a show. In retrospect, I have come to appreciate the diversity of musical experience I was exposed to as a child which helped me later. It’s similar to sport. If you want to be a professional tennis player it’s a good idea to play other sports too when you’re younger. Likewise, if you want to be a professional musician it helps to participate in a wide range of musical experiences and genres. So, for me, working with others, including musically, comes naturally.

Really listening to your playing as well as the musicians around you is not a skill that is unique to playing with an orchestra or playing chamber music. All musicians in every genre need to develop these various musicianship skills. For instance, it makes no sense for a singer to go off on their own tangent leaving musicians to keep up as best they can. That would be a cacophony. Take a pop star, such as, Celine Dion. She is a solo singer but, nevertheless, has backing singers and a band. All of them have to co-ordinate and synchronize otherwise no-one will come to the concerts! There are often certain chords or drum beats that cue the singer to land certain notes and if this isn’t timed absolutely correctly then the song falls apart. Equally, Celine can’t just speed up in the middle of a song when she feels like it because it would confuse her backing singers and band and they’ll end up out of sync with her. Unhappy backers, unhappy band and one unhappy audience who couldn’t sing along to their favourite song.

It’s the same with classical musicians. The soloist is important but not to the extent that the conductor and orchestra are left to fend for themselves while s/he plays the concerto as s/he hears it in her head without paying any attention to the musical dialogue between soloist and orchestra. As for conductors, I don’t think paying attention to a conductor or choir leader should replace being sensitive to what’s going on around you musically. Conductors or choir leaders add something different to the mix. For instance, they give cues to improve anticipation, timing, and help a large group of musicians or singers gel together with ease. They impart musical ideas and feedback as and when needed.

Listening to yourself helps you maintain perfect pitch and intonation as well as a good tonal quality. It also trains you to have an ear for simultaneously listening to yourself and others with whom you are making music as well as how your combined efforts blend together musically and aesthetically. In addition, you have to be quick enough to adapt and adjust to the musicians around you and the conductor/leader in a matter of milliseconds to keep a balance between pre-prepared interpretation and an element of spontaneity within the musical interactions. So, for instance, in a concerto, it’s a dialogue between soloist and orchestra. It’s always a matter of knowing when to, figuratively speaking, talk and when to listen. If the two (soloist, orchestra) don’t do this and talk over each other it ceases to be a musical conversation, loses meaning and becomes a mess. The same applies to singing or playing a musical instrument accompanied by a pianist. When playing my cello repertoire with my cello teacher accompanying me on the piano, I found myself listening to what I was playing as well as what she was playing as an accompaniment and remembering to complement her to create a harmonious sound. This skill also translated well when singing pop and musical theatre songs with my singing teachers accompanying me and/or us singing as a group.

So to return to my two points at the beginning. What you take for granted is the variety of ways you listen as a musician:

1)      You listen to your playing/singing but not in a general way which merely results in you hearing yourself. You train your ear to pick up the slightest changes of pitch and tonal quality and learn how to make constant tiny adjustments to maintain consistency and perfection. Nobody achieves 100% perfection but we all have to strive for it to provide the best possible experience for the listener/audience.



Furthermore, different genres have different pitches. Classical music has the highest pitch, making its standard pitch slightly sharper than the norm. Some pop singers, especially divas, use a more classical pitch while most others’ pitch is slightly flatter to varying degrees. Musical theatre singers are mostly around the norm in pitch although those with some classical background may be closer to a classical pitch. Country and folk singers generally have a flatter pitch but there are exceptions such as Dolly Parton. Some genres have their own scale. For instance, the blues scale flattens the 3rd, 7th and sometimes 5th even though it is a major scale. In classical music, minor scales characteristically have a flattened/minor sound so composers use this scale to write music in a minor key to depict sad emotions as opposed to major scales and keys which are typically seen as conveying happiness. Musicians nearly always choose one pitch and sing or play everything according to it.



I sing and play the cello (and other instruments) according to classical pitch, partly because that was how I was taught as a child and partly for technical reasons, such as it keeps you more reliably in tune. However, when making music with others, especially when singing with others, it is very useful to be aware of their type of pitch and adjust accordingly so you blend with them and avoid pitch clashes. This is part of what my cello teacher meant by REALLY listening: develop your listening skills so you pick up on small details and not just the general picture.  



2)      Pitch isn’t the only aspect of music you need to attune your ear to in order to have musical awareness. Other aspects include tempo, rhythm, rests, when and how others are beginning and ending notes, their colouring, timbre and volume. All this takes a huge amount of concentration and intensity. This is the difference between listening and REALLY listening. You cease to listen to music like a non-musician who can relax and let the music wash over them. For the musician, it’s a matter of combining all these different types of listening with heightened awareness and concentration and being attentive to the minutest details in sound production. It’s not a passive process but a constant, active process of analytical, critical listening.



1Based on my comment on facebook in response to Steven Isserlis’s post: ‘All the World’s a (chamber music) stage…’ 28/06/2017 available at:

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